“My Time’s up.”
Sonia Exelby’s final message to a friend was sent while her alleged assailant was showering nearby. In a state of fear and distress, Sonia, 32, quickly communicated her situation from a Florida Airbnb, far away from her home in Portsmouth. Amidst the urgency, police records revealed that Dwain Hall, 54, informed Sonia that her only way out was to shoot him.
Having arrived in the US on October 10 the previous year, Sonia seemed to have arrived with the intention of meeting her demise after having been in contact with Hall through a fetish website for a substantial period. In her last moments, Sonia seemed to grapple with her own mortality, and her grieving family honored her memory this week.
Expressing her inability to commit violence, Sonia messaged her friend, pondering the finality of her situation if she did not accept Hall’s offer to end his life swiftly. Tragically, Sonia’s lifeless body was discovered in Marion County, Florida, a week later, leading to Hall’s arrest on charges of first-degree murder and kidnapping.
A lover of music, veganism, and animals, Sonia was the youngest of six siblings and shared a special bond with her sister Sara, a connection her family described as unbreakable. Raised in Porchester by loving parents, Sonia was known for her compassionate nature, especially evident in her 15-year relationship with her dedicated partner, Stevie.
Recognized as a caring aunt who brought joy and music to her nieces and nephews, Sonia’s musical talent shone at the Fareham Area Final of the Open Mic UK competition in 2013. Her social media accounts reflected her close relationships with her sisters and friends, showcasing a life filled with love and kindness.
While known for her gentle demeanor and vegan lifestyle, Sonia also battled mental health challenges. Past police reports from 2024 revealed an incident where Sonia had planned to meet individuals online who were willing to commit violent acts against her. Following a mental health diagnosis, she underwent treatment and focused on her well-being.
Despite her efforts to prioritize her health, Hall continued to pursue a troubling dynamic with Sonia, aware of her mental health struggles and suicidal tendencies. Hall purportedly aimed to assist Sonia but engaged in discussions about her demise. After meeting with Hall in Florida, Sonia tragically met her fate, leading to a series of incriminating events and Hall’s eventual arrest.
As the case unfolds, Hall’s actions and motives are under scrutiny, with his trial scheduled to commence on November 16. Sonia’s family, in their first public statement, remembered her as a person who exuded warmth and acceptance, leaving an indelible mark on those she encountered.
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